No. 005 · The noise

This is how most
weddings get planned.

No. 007 · The calm

There is a calmer way.

No. 010 · The invitation

Every guest gets their own.

Your personal invitation

Hello, Mama Ijeoma.

Chidinma and Tunde are getting married.
Sat 12 Dec 2026 · Victoria Island, Lagos

Hand delivered toMama Ijeoma

Tap the seal

No. 011 · The count

Know who’s coming.
And where they sit.

Every guest who says yes takes a seat and lights a candle.

Invited
320
Confirmed
0
Seated
0
No. 015 · The dance

Now go and dance.

No. 003 · The colour

Burgundy and gold.

The family chooses the aso ebi. Four hundred people will wear it.

No. 003 · The colour

Lace, gele and coral.

Everyone in one colour. Everyone on one list.

No. 004 · The weave

Aso-oke, woven by hand.

Her family’s colour, shot with gold. Indigo and white for his.

No. 004 · The weave

One roll, one name.

Each roll is tagged for a guest on the list. Mama Ijeoma’s is tied first.

No. 009 · The doors · Victoria Island

Four hundred places. One way in.

The hall is dressed by four. The guests are still deciding.

No. 006 · Mama · Benin City

Her outfit is ready.
No invitation has come.

Mama Ijeoma · voice message to Tunde

“Tunde, my son. What time should I be ready? … I don’t want to disturb you.”

In a crowd of names, someone can still feel forgotten.

No. 008 · Her name · Lagos, late

“She thinks she has to ask.”

Tunde finds her in the list.

Something with her name on it.

No. 012 · Getting ready

Shoes on the lamp. Gele already tied.

Everything she will wear, laid out in the order she will need it.

No. 012 · Getting ready

Ready by noon.

Her phone has not stopped buzzing since six.

No. 013 · The morning

Four hundred places, set by name.

Gold, glass and candlelight. Every card written from the same list.

No. 013 · The morning

Nobody has to wonder where to sit.

Seating is planned before the doors open.

No. 014 · The place kept

Mama Ijeoma. Table 1.

Guests say yes. The couple choose where they sit.

Tunde

“I kept your place.”

She always kept a plate for him. Today he kept a chair for her.

ÀríyáChidinma & Tunde · 12 Dec 2026

Guests

Mama IjeomaBenin City · by text message
Invitation not sent

No. 016 · The send-off

When the hall goes quiet,
the sky stays lit.

No. 016 · The send-off

A lantern for every yes. Four hundred of them, rising over the lagoon.

Plan your àríyá.

Àríyá by OwambePlanFor Nigerian weddings, introductions and owambes

That was one wedding. Here is how Àríyá runs yours.

  1. One link per guest

    Every guest gets their own invitation by text message or email, with their name on it. No group chat.

  2. Replies arrive by themselves

    Yes, no and plus-ones land in one list, with a live headcount for the couple, the planner and the caterer.

  3. Seat with care

    You choose the tables. Guests see their seat on the day, and Mama gets Table 1.

ÀríyáChidinma & Tunde · Sat 12 Dec 2026
Invited
320
Confirmed
241
Seated
218
  • Mama IjeomaTable 1Confirmed
  • Aunty Bisi + 4Table 3Confirmed
  • Mr & Mrs OkaforTable 5Confirmed
  • Femi Adeyemi—Waiting
  • Tolu Bankole—Can’t come
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